Assault Prevention Canada is dedicated to teaching you
how to protect
yourself, your children, your family and your community.
It's not about physical strength.
It's not about
learning Martial Arts.
It's not about fighting.
It is about being aware.
It is about having a plan.
It
is about knowing you have the permission and ability to defend yourself.
"Best defense, don't be there!"
Three things are necessary for any crime to exist: a
criminal, a victim and an opportunity. The first step in preventing any
crime is to remove the opportunity; which will also lower the probability
of victimization.
One of the keys to preventing assault is in not waiting
for it to happen (or happen again). Becoming aware of, not only your
environment, but of the attitude of people in that environment. You can
see it coming, and when you see it, leave - DON'T BE THERE.
People say "Oh, that's easy for you to say, but you
don't know what it's like". Really? Does anyone want to be assaulted?
That's exactly what you are saying if you stay in a volatile situation;
you are putting yourself in danger that will only get worse.
"The first time you are a victim, the second time
you are a volunteer."
Women have been victimized for years in everything from
children's stories to hit movies.
A stream of pictures that say "You are weaker, you are slower, you are
helpless...you are a victim".
However, women have a naturally higher pain threshold, a keener instinct
(women's' intuition?), and a stronger sense for protecting their family.
In nature it is the female that protects, and the male that primps and
shows off (OK, so it's not that different if you think about it).
The problem is, we humans have suppressed our natural
instincts to the point of stagnation, so that when they try to take over,
it's like pushing on the car's accelerator and brake at the same time -
eventually something has to give, and by then it's too late to be useful!
We confuse fear with panic or worry and get stuck.
"Fear is a trigger, speed is a weapon, survival
is an attitude."
Fear is our natural instinct for survival trying to
launch our body into motion - heart rate increasing, lungs expanding,
nostrils flaring, muscles tensing, pupils dilating, hairs on end - all
designed to increase awareness of the slightest threat to our safety so
that we can avoid danger.
Panic/worry is manufactured, un-natural; it has no
instinctual purpose, so it confuses the brain and short circuits the
nervous system (and thus our muscles).
Your first defense is knowing you are allowed and able
to defend yourself.
Then, be aware and avoid volatile situations.
If you are caught in a bad situation, do whatever it takes to get out and
away to safety.
Your last resort is to defend yourself physically; do so with all your
strength and then leave.
Last, but not least, if ever you are assaulted, even if
you get away unharmed, report it to the Police - see that the offender is
caught and charged - if they get away with it they will always continue.
The next person may not be as prepared as you.
"First, do what is necessary.
Next, do what is possible.
Soon, you will find you are doing the impossible!"
(St. Francis of Assisi)